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A New Format, But the Messages Remain Relevant (I Hope)
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I stopped writing this blog because, upon checking the stats regularly, I had zero visitors most of the time. To continue blogging would be for my own therapy and no one else's. I want to share what I have learned about life and abstinence along my journey to a lasting sobriety. Maybe some nugget will help someone else -- if they read it. So I decided to turn my musings into a book. I started writing this book last year by copying and pasting my daily posts. I haven't worked on this for months, but I seek inspiration to begin again in earnest. Then (fingers crossed) I will find a publisher. I felt from the start God wanted me to write this blog. Now I feel He is leading me in a slightly different direction. Whether you are ingesting this message via blog or book, I invite you to eat it all up, meditating on the messages that apply to you and passing up what doesn't. Somewhere in these words, I hope that God is leading you to a place where you need to be led. That's what
Covid Test? I'll Drink to That!
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I am doing my part to halt the spread of the coronavirus. I wash my hands and use hand sanitizer. I wear a mask in public. I leave my house only when I have a real need. And this morning, I had a covid-19 test. It's no longer necessary to display symptoms to get a test. Kentucky Governor Beshear, during his daily news briefings, encourages all to take a test. I made an appointment online. There was no waiting. I drove up, cracked my window, and received a swab and a vial. Sticking that baby up my nose made me sneeze like crazy, That was the only discomfort. For my effort I received a mask, tissues, and a bottle of hand sanitizer. No charge. The hand sanitizer has the consistency of water -- or whiskey -- not like lotion. According to the label, it consists of 80% alcohol. Eighty percent? Do you know what I would have been tempted to try to do with that if I was still drinking and was out of booze? Yuk! But if I could drink a bottle of mouthwash back in my crazy days, I pr
Why I Don't Jog to the Liquor Store Anymore
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Running long distances was my passion. I ran races anywhere from 6.2 miles to 50 miles. Compared to other runners I was okay, but certainly not a standout. What mattered was competing against myself by reducing my time. The bottom line was keeping fit and healthy and, unlike my father, living to be older than 49. I was maybe in my prime when my knee started bothering me. I ran through it. Don't let a little bit of pain slow me down, I thought. Rub some dirt on it and sign up for another race. Ignore the problem and it will go away. It didn't work out that way. I eventually had to see a doctor. After arthroscopic surgery and a long recovery, I went back to running. My knee still hurt and kept getting worse. I ignored the problem. It still didn't go away. "Problems do not go away. They must be worked through or else they remain, forever a barrier to the growth and development of the spirit," wrote M. Scott Peck in The Road Less Traveled ( http://www.mscot
Drinking Doesn't Selectively Numb
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I drank to numb myself from hurts and negative feelings. In doing so, I have come to find out I also numbed my feelings of joy, happiness, creativity, love...all my positive emotions. We need to accept our pains so that we don't numb ourselves to the glory of living. “We cannot selectively numb emotions. When we numb the painful emotions, we also numb the positive emotions. Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren't always comfortable, but they're never weakness.” -- Brene Brown
The Need for Face-to-Face Contact to Stay Sober
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Sobriety in a Time of Crisis
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Are you staying sober during the pandemic? Here is a Dr. Phil interview with a woman who started drinking every day to stay "comfortably numb." Have a look. It lasts less than five minutes. https://www.drphil.com/videos/woman-adhering-to-stay-at-home-orders-says-she-drinks-nearly-every-day-to-keep-her-mind-off/ t Here is the conclusion to the above. The woman confesses she is self-medicating. https://www.drphil.com/videos/mom-of-4-admits-to-drinking-daily-while-sheltering-at-home-with-kids/ I don't want to be like her. So far I am sober as a nun.